Open When Letters for New Mom- That Every New Parent Will Cherish

In this post, I share open when letters for new moms. I created these fun open when letters for new moms as a perfect way to give a gift that can help any new mom navigate the first few months.

Open When Letters for New Mom

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I created these open when letters for new moms as a way to give the extra help in a gift form. The first few weeks of bringing a baby home can be a huge adjustment. These open when letters can help ease that time and can be a great gift. Part of the magic of these open when envelopes is the special momentums that these can be filled with. Each stack of “Open When” letters will be unique depending on the content.

Open When printables – Message on each

The letters start with: Open now, which explains the envelopes. Use all 14 and blanks, use a few, or just use the blanks. Decide on any combo that works for you.

1. You need some company
2. In need of a manicure
3. You are feeling blue
4. Need breakfast delivered
5. You are going back to work
6. You need a confidence boost
7. Need a night out
8. Some serenity
9. Need a good laugh
10. You need a babysitter
11. Your feet hurt
12. You have been spit/peed on
13. Need to feel pretty
14. Need sleep

4. Bonus: Open when blank labels to fill out your own ideas that you may want to include.

18 in total!

Use the blanks to write your own messages and open when ideas. Use all 14 of the above ideas, or use a few of the ideas above. You get to choose what your open when for new mom looks like and what it will contain.

First Open when for new mom

• This letter should be the first one opened so they know what to expect:
• No peeking!
• Open only when the topic applies at the moment.
• Don’t open up more than one or two in a week.
• Send me a selfie with your letter when you open it.
• Save them to remember that nothing stays the same forever!

Items to Put in Your “Open When” Letters

Make each envelope extra special by tucking in a little surprise. Here are some thoughtful (and fun!) items you can include:

• Funny Stories – Share a hilarious memory or parenting moment to lift their spirits and remind them it’s okay to laugh through the chaos.
• Self-Care Goodies – Add small items like lip balm, facial moisturizer, nail polish, a stain stick, or even a soothing tea bag. Little luxuries go a long way during sleepless nights.
• Handwritten Notes – Sometimes, a heartfelt letter is all they need. Your words can offer comfort, encouragement, and love at just the right moment.
• Inspirational Quotes – Uplifting quotes or affirmations can be powerful reminders that they’re not alone and that they’re doing an amazing job.
• Gift Cards – Slip in small gift cards to a favorite coffee shop, café, bookstore, or even for food delivery—anything to give them a little break.
• Old Photos – A sweet snapshot from the past can be just what they need to bring a smile or a tear (the good kind!). Bonus points for baby pictures of the parents!
• Mini Activities – Include a simple crossword, coloring page, or quick journal prompt to help them take a short mental break.
• Treats – Think mints, a favorite candy, or a mini chocolate bar—small pick-me-ups for tough days.
• Playlist Link – Create and include a QR code or link to a comforting, uplifting, or nostalgic playlist to match the theme of the letter.

Each envelope becomes a tiny moment of relief, encouragement, or joy. Add your personal touch, and they’ll feel the love with every “Open When

Some of my open when letters include

You need some company -insert your number with a note to say call me! Then come over and just chat. Sometimes, adult connection is all a new mom needs.

need of a manicure– A gift certificate to a local spa

You are feeling blue– New moms or parents can feel overwhelmed and tired. An inspirational quote or a personal note to cheer them up.

Need breakfast delivered– A gift certificate to a local cafe, or a note for a “good for one” voucher, where you will pick up breakfast and personally deliver.

going back to work– This is a tough one. So many challenges. A subscription to Audible for a month, so they have something to listen to on their commute.

Need a good laugh– I printed out a bunch of fun photos of family and fun events so she has great memories on hand to look at and remember that everything is just a moment in time.

Need a confidence boost– PAcket of herbal tea and Inspirational quotes to keep her going!

You need a babysitter – If you are close, you can add another “good for one” voucher for babysitting. Now that’s priceless!

Your feet hurt– Add some foot cream, or a gift certificate for a pedicure, or a reflexology session.

You have been spit/peed on– Add a stain stick or small detergent packet

Need to feel pretty- Add a pair of fun earrings or bracelet, a lip gloss, or a small mirror with a note to say this mama is gorgeous!

I love a Printable! You can check out my other printables here, I have lots of great ideas and free printables. Take a look and feel free to download and use them for your personal use and gift-making.

How to Create Open when letters

Once you download your open when labels, just cut them out, and use either double stick tape or glue stick to adhere them into the center of either store bought envelopes, check these from Amazon here or use the envelope template below to create your own. These open when labels are sized for 4 3/8″x 5 3/4″ envelopes.

DOWNLOAD BELOW- Your free Open When labels

Yep! I am sharing my free printables that can be used to create your own “Open When for new mom or parent. Add your own twist on these fun free open when printables. Share in the comments any fun ideas that may add more fun to these.

For the Full series of Open when labels see below for my Etsy Store and Double Arrow Designs.

Open when labels on Etsy

For the full series of Open when labels, see below for my Etsy Store and Double Arrow Designs. Each one was created with a graphic that I designed to reflect each envelope’s purpose. Once tied up in a bundle, they all have a unified, yet individual look for fun each time one of these “open when” envelopes are opened. I sprinkled with a good helping of confetti to keep these festive and appealing.

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FREE TEMPLATE FOR ENVELOPE- click the download button below

You can easily buy these craft envelopes here on Amazon, or if you are like me, make your own! Below Is a printable 4 3/8″ x 5 3/4″ envelope template that you can print and cut out as is, or use as a template and make your own envelope using any letter-size construction, craft, or novelty paper.

Print out the envelope template. Crease all dotted lines. Fold both small side tabs in, then fold the longer bottom tab up. Use either double stick tape, or glue stick and attach the sides of the larger tabs to the side tabs. ( See image above.) Fold the top tab over for the envelope flap. Once you fill your open when envelopes, you can seal them with some glue stick, double stick tape, regular tape, or if you are really fancy, a wax seal!

Open when letters make a perfect gift to either send your college student off with, or an unexpected surprise that they can receive in their college dorm mailbox. You can print these out on fun construction paper, craft paper or regular paper and add your own personal touch. They fit perfectly in a standard letter envelope or you can make your own, using the template that I created.

Supplies & fun stuff for Open when envelopes

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1. Brown Kraft A2 Invitation Envelopes Self Seal 4 3/8 x 5 3/4– My open when labels fit best on this size, but you can use other sizes as well.
2. Fiskars Softgrip Scissors Straight Stainless Steel
3. Satin Ribbon– or any cording or raffia you have on hand.
4. Sticker Pack– who doesn’t love a sticker? I know Emma has a huge collection of these on her laptop case to reflect part of her personality.
5. Starbucks Gift Card– You can also purchase digital download ones, for an instant gift card.
6. Multicolor Glitter Confetti Sequins– This always adds a festive mood to anything
7. Tazo Herbal Tea Tea Bags– love herbal tea, these small packets are perfect to send.
8. Inspirational Quote Keychains– Love the idea of carrying around a motivational quote. You can never have too many of these.

Gift ideas for new mom

1. Tide To Go Instant Stain Remove– When spit happens!
2. Pink Stork Postpartum Uplift Tea– When feeling blue
3. Joycuff Inspirational Bracelets– Need a confidence boost
4. New Mama Affirmations– when a new mom, parent is feeling unsure
5. BodyRestore Shower Steamers– After a long day
6. Burt’s Bees Gift Set, 6 Products– keeping all body parts hydrated!
7. Body Oil, Burt’s Bees Mama Hydrating & Smoothing Skin Care with Vitamin E– Can help with belly stretch marks
8. New Parent Gift Keychain– Honor a new family member
9. Dr. Scholl’s Women’s Low-Cut Soothing Spa Socks– After being on your feet all day
10. Mulberry Silk Sleep Eye Mask– When you need to shut the world out around you

Download Free “Open When” Labels for New Moms!

Subscribe below to instantly receive a free downloadable set of beautifully designed “Open When” labels—perfect for new moms, dads, or parents! This abbreviated version includes:

• “Open Now” with a list of thoughtful rules
• “When You Need Breakfast Delivered”
• Plus blank cards so you can customize your own heartfelt messages!

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packaging for open when letters

You do not have to just stick with an envelope; if your gifts are too big for an envelope, you can use a larger envelope, gift bag, or even a big gift box and tag everything with the coordinating open when labels.

Create Your Own “Open When” Letters

There are so many thoughtful ways to personalize “Open When” letters—perfect for new moms, dads, or any parent navigating the joys (and chaos!) of a new baby. Below are just a few inspiring ideas to get you started, but truly, the possibilities are endless. Just create your own printable label, stick it on an envelope, and fill it with love, encouragement, or even a little humor!

Open When Letter Ideas for New Parents:

• Open When… you haven’t slept in days – Include a funny meme, coffee gift card, or words of encouragement.
• Open When… you need a confidence boost – Share reminders of how amazing they are.
• Open When… baby won’t stop crying – Tips that worked for you, or a silly joke to lighten the moment.
• Open When… you need a reminder you’re doing great – Honest and heartfelt words go a long way.
• Open When… you’re missing your old routine – Acknowledge the change and offer a coffee date.
• Open When… you need a moment to yourself – Include a short guided meditation or a spa night coupon.
• Open When… you want to remember why you’re doing this – A letter about love, family, and the future.

Get creative—add tiny treats, personal stories, photos, or drawings. A little thought now will mean the world later!

Share your open when letters for new mom, dad, or parent creations in the comments. Always love to see how people utilize what I make and what they create on their own.

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Last update on 2025-11-18 / Affiliate links / Images from Amazon Product Advertising API